Thursday, May 31, 2012

Apples to Oranges & Peaches to...Me?

The blogging streak continues! But its only been what, a few days? In my defense, they have been an emotional roller coaster! I have found myself going from Alabama, my family, my boyfriend, and complete relaxation to Rexburg. Overcast, stressful, lonely Rexburg. (Not that it can't be wonderful at times, because it can. Its just that Alabama is the only place I want to be, and the only place that it feels like I won't ever get home to!) But luckily- I have the little things in life to keep me going. And I was richly, richly blessed with those over the last few days.
One of these little things, was my mother! I do not know how someone so average as me came from someone so amazing, wonderful, and perfect as her. She has always been so aware of all of her kids; their wants, their needs, and their worries. Even when one of them is halfway across the country. This week was so stressful with school and with all of my classes- I didn't even want to think about all of the shopping I had to do. For food, shampoo, make up...you know. All the expensive bathroom products that I always seem to run out of ALL OF at the same exact time. I am on a budget, like every college student here. So I didn't want to think about overspending on make up and shampoo and whatever else after buying my food! But I also know that toothpaste and face wash are things that I just cant live without. (I might could do without the make-up. MIGHT.) I was checking my emails, and I saw a forwarded message from my mom. When I opened it I was expecting some old picture of all of us that she had edited, or a reminder that the rest of my rent for my apartment was due at the end of this month. To my surprise, it wasn't either of these things. It was receipt of a shipment! I kept scrolling down the email, reading the names of all kinds of expensive, quality, name brand make up, shampoos, face wash, make up removers (which I haven't had the luxury of since I left home! I have been stuck with baby oil!), and conditioners. The order was easily over $100, and the only reasons she gave were she thought I would like to have these things, she thought the name of one of the mascaras was cool, and that she loved me. Tender mercy on my stressful, hair ripping week? I think yes. Thank you Mama!
The second little thing this week was a story that I heard. Or rather, remembered. With Tommy going to EFY all summer, I have grown a little more hatred for that camp than I had before. And if I am honest, I have been thinking a lot on my experiences there. Most of which, not very good. But there was one story that I haven't, and probably wont ever forget that I can thank EFY for. Our session director shared it with us on the last day. I keep under my bed a box of letters. Letters from my parents mostly. With all my little siblings always underfoot-my parents and I never found much time to sit down and talk about anything for longer than five minutes. But my mom and I started writing letters to each other, and leaving them on each other's beds. I love those letters. And among them I have a few other important things, my patriarchal blessing, a letter that my dad wrote me when I graduated and left home, notes from girls at girls camp, and lots of conference notes from over the years. In this seemingly endless pile of letters I went to go though this week, I found the story of the peaches. Which was so unbelievably fitting for my life! The story goes like this- and yes, it starts with once upon a time. All of the good stories do.
         Once upon a time there was a kingdom by the sea, known for its flowers and trees. The king of this kingdom was loved by his people, and he ruled with a fair and just hand. The king and his queen had not been blessed with any sons or any daughters, and so they had no heir to the throne. The king loved the people, and wanted to leave them with an honest and fair ruler in his place. When the king knew he was dying, he had all of the boys of a certain age come into the palace. Each of the boys were given a flower pot and a seed. The king weakly rose from his bed and spoke softly, "You all have been given a pot and a seed, and the boy who returns to the palace in a months time with the most beautiful peach tree -will inherit my kingdom, and all that I have." The days passed quickly, and with each passing day until the month was through- the king grew weaker. The boys of the kingdom devoted much time and effort into their seeds, and soon they began to sprout. Some started to grow tiny trunks and leaves, tiny branches, and some even began to bloom with tiny peach blossoms.. The boys began to take pride in their hard work, and to show off all that they had cultivated. There was an Orphan in the kingdom who had also received a seed. Despite all that he did for the seed, it would not grow. Day after day he would look at the pot wishing to see a sprout-even the smallest sign that he had devoted even a little time to the tiny seed. And day after day, nothing changed. When the month mark finally came due, the boys of the kingdom all returned to the palace dressed in the best clothes that their parents could adorn them with. Each boy held it pot proudly in hand, showing the healthy sprouts. The king rose weakly from his bed, and began to walk down the line, hoping somewhere therein would be his heir. He walked slowly, looking at each of the plants, and looking into the eyes of each boy. He finally reached the end of the line, and met the eyes of the Orphan. The shaking hands of the boy held a pot full only of soil, when all the others held rich young trees. The young boy's emotions overcame him. "I'm sorry.." he offered. "I did all that I could for the seed, I gave it water and sunlight, and cared for it everyday. I don't know what I did wrong." With tears filling his eyes, the king knelt down and put a hand on the boys exposed shoulder. "My child, you have done all that was asked of you. I have boiled all of the peach seeds. None of your seeds were ever supposed to grow. Now I am sure, that you are the heir to this kingdom. All that I have, I give to you."
I love that story. Even though it isn't anywhere close to being professionally written, the message is so powerful. Diligence is such an important gospel principle. When we do things the right way, in the right time, and we keep Heavenly Father involved in our decision making, we leave little room for things to go wrong. Even though during the moment our diligence may not appear to be paying off or making a difference, we never know what the Father has in store for us.....or the circumstances of the bigger picture. But I know that through diligence we can find happiness and the peace that the Father can give us! President Monson once said that "Work will win, when wishy washy wishing won't." Where there is no struggle, there is no strength. I used to be frustrated with struggle, because it always accompanies the things that I love, and the things that I want. But now I am grateful. The things that I love and the things that I want can be made strong. I know people say that you cant compare apples to oranges, but I have decided that I can compare the story of the peaches to me.

Enough of the little things! So in Rexburg, there are these things called cake pops. And people go door to door here selling them like they are the sunday paper. Forgive me, if I don't want to pay a dollar for a cake ball...on a stick. (what is it about sticks that make everything more novel?) We literally have a knock on our door once a week from some random person selling cake pops. After 5 months of saying no and shutting doors. I bought one. I just had to know if the dang cake pops were as good as everyone says they are or even worth selling from door to door. Swiftly following my terrible, money blowing example was Shaeby. Unfortunately, they werent that great. But dont tell anyone I said that. I might get struck down by the Rexburg cake pop God. Yes, that is how much people obsess over them. Its to the point of worship!  Until next time.. hopefully I'll have better things to say about desserts on sticks. ♥

Tuesday, May 29, 2012

Around the world and back again, that's the sailor's way.

4 months and an entire semester later, she lives! I fell off of the face of the blogging world (as sweetly pointed out by the lovely Cindy Davis) last semester, but you can thank lots of work, social activities, and stress for that! Winter semester went so quickly, and was full of so many blessings! I met so many wonderful people and had so many awesome experiences. If I am honest though, I have to tell you that I DO NOT miss walking to class in 0 degree weather, and that this blooming 66 degree Rexburg is tolerable. Very tolerable!
 I got to spend 10 days  at home inbetween the end of Winter semester and the start of Spring semester. It was unbelieveably refreshing! I didn't realize how much I had missed my sweet family until I got the opoportunity to see them, only to have to up and leave them again! I am excited about being able to spend more than 10 days, or just a weekend with them come July!


After 10 crazzzzzzzzzzzzy days with the kids, and grandparents, and unfortunately the interstate, I came back up to Rexburg to meet the new 401 Family. Jen, Quinci, and Mandy (all roommates from last semester) went home, so Cassie, Adell, and I got three new roommates! We found out before we met them that they all knew each other, and that they had been roommates since the dawn of time. (we were pretty excited not to have any first semester girls! although if we had, we would've taken good care of them.) First new roommate is Marissa! She is from Nebraska, and she is obsessed with superman. Superman everything. Think of an object. And she's got it..with superman on it. Shae'la is from Texas! I don't really count Texas as "the south", but when I found out I was going to have someone NOT from up north in my apartment, I was so excited! (Not that I don't love my yankee girls, because I DO!) Amanda is from Nebraska too, but she was only here for a couple of days. She had to go back home to take care of some health problems. We miss her!


I am so blessed to have these lovely ladies! (From left to right, Adell, Marissa, Cassie, Shae'la, and yours truly.) Speaking of new people, we have another super awesome home evening group this semester. Cassie, Adell, and I got to stay in the same ward as last semester-which we were really happy about. So we have the same bishopric! Who we LOVE! We have good feelings about our ward, and our home evening group for spring :)

Feeding the ducks!

Edwin!

The boys, Brother Byington, and Bishop Brown!

Get it offa me.

I could tell you that our awesome FHE group, or my amazing roommates, or the fact that this spring  is just plain easier than winter is the best thing about this semester. But the best thing about this semester, is my man! After talking for a long looooooooong time, meeting all of each others family, and crazy road trips from Provo to Rexburg, Rexburg to Provo, and from all the way across the COUNTRY to Rexburg, I officially have the most amazing boyfriend. Tommy is the best thing about this semester!
This past weekend was memorial day weekend, and I found myself flying across the country to see my family, my boyfriend, and his family too. My parents got a cabin in Fort Payne, right next to Little River Canyon. We left on thursday night, and stayed until saturday morning. I took Tommy with me, because I couldn't have it any other way. So he spent the weekend with raw Allens...and I think he is still sane. If not, then he is very very good at not showing it.




When Tommy and I got back from Fort Payne Saturday, he helped me unload the car and all of the coolers (which was strange, I don't think we ate any of the food that we took..), and then went home for the first time in three days! He came back later that night though, so that we could go on a date. He took me to Zaxbys, which he knew I'd been dying for, and then took me to see Battleship! I think I might have liked that movie more than I liked the Avengers! (which I also saw with Tommy!) Not that the Avengers was bad, because it was awesome. But Battleship was just...really awesome.
Sunday I went to church in my home ward, and had a major reunion. Haley, Claire, and I were all there-the unseperable trio was reunited. And Jessie, who moved away four years ago was back visiting for the first time! It was so good to be reunited with all the girls and to talk about all of our "remember whens." On Sunday night I went over to Tommy's to meet his brother Jamie, his wife Paris, and their two boys- Banx and Thad! Cutest little family ever. They were all so sweet, and I love being with the Greens. When I am with them I find myself silently marveling at how similar they are to my family, and my extended family! Its almost like I'm sitting at home in Mobile again with the whole family!
         I made it home after a long day of flying yesterday-and today was the first day back in the Burg. Back to the old grind-time to hit the books. Until next time. And yes, there will be a next time, a next time that is NOT four months away.